[quote author=Ladna link=topic=410.msg3813#msg3813 date=1300338888]<br />1.) Negative-proof fallacy, basically you can never prove a negative.<br />2.) Argument from silence[/quote]<br /><br />Admitting that someone(anyone) caused you to leave for x amount of time is a tough thing to say, especially when you have an ego, when you&#039;re sensitive, and when you&#039;re in the spot light. I mentioned, then asked why didn&#039;t he join #IDL(I wanted to say something on the &quot;monitoring&quot; him comment, but couldn&#039;t find a good way to put it in.) Anyways, I didn&#039;t monitor Star(why would I, we barely communicated or didn&#039;t at all at the time) but someone in the IDL channel was, and they said &quot;Hey nostar/crapstar is on irc&quot; followed by &quot;really?&quot; which then myself along with how many others, did a simple /whois to see if they were right. Nostar overlooked my point about being absent in #IDL, He claimed to have been on IRC through his phone. I&#039;m not sure how hard it is to join the IDL channel through a phone, but seeing he does it to highlight for priv, it gives me the impression of: yeah pretty easy - so there&#039;s no real excuse to why he [b]couldn&#039;t have[/b]. I would imagine that saying why he didn&#039;t join #IDL would be pretty much admitting that Jen ran him off(seeing as no reason was given, and that any other reason than that one would not be too difficult to admit, and if it was any other reason, he would have responded to my initial comment about being absent in the channel.) Going off by this, Nostar avoided both of my comments about being absent in the channel. I figured &quot;Ok, so it probably has to be about Jennifer.&quot; Nothing wrong there, at first I was curious about how correct I might be about this, though as time went on,&nbsp; Star proceeded to insult me which led me to<br /><br />1) Believe that there is something to not admit and<br />2) There was some general truth in what I said<br /><br />Insulting me is an attempt to change the subject/change my focus on a particular thing so that it can be avoided. Again, if it was a reason that is easy to admit, then he would have done it in my initial comment. It&#039;s true he doesn&#039;t have to respond to me or answer my question/demand. However, seeing as he avoided it and insulted me(tried to), it can be inferred that he doesn&#039;t want to answer it because it is about Jen, and doing that would prove anyone who thought that it was about Jen, right, and it would potentially boost Jen&#039;s ego to unbelievable levels. At that point, it would be difficult to save face(if it means anything to begin with, most likely does since it possibly is a factor contributing to this) and it could always be used against Star to hinder him(Jen made you leave so why should x matter, pretty much anything about Jen making him leave.)<br /><br />[quote author=Ladna link=topic=410.msg3813#msg3813 date=1300338888]It&#039;s difficult to not get that impression[/quote]<br /><br />Impressions aren&#039;t what they always appear to be. I can say you are a good doomer and I can assist you in setting up servers or what not, but I can think otherwise, and the intention isn&#039;t to compliment you or to help you out or what not, but instead so that I can have certain things that can only be acquired with sucking up(RCON, passwords, whatever else I can get from you with just &quot;impressions&quot;.)<br /><br />One word - Deception.<br /><br />Also, just for the record, Psychologists don&#039;t prove anything, they support or disprove. <br />Get on my level.